{"id":1075,"date":"2008-10-18T20:01:03","date_gmt":"2008-10-18T20:01:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/nycphantom.com\/journal\/?p=1075"},"modified":"2008-10-18T20:01:03","modified_gmt":"2008-10-18T20:01:03","slug":"was-paul-married","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/nycphantom.com\/journal\/?p=1075","title":{"rendered":"Was Paul Married?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\nMany (especially immigrant or anthropocentric preachers?) presume that Paul was<br \/>\nmarried because they first tried to speculate Paul was a Rabbi or a<br \/>\nmember of Sanhedrin from certain parts of the Bible and then referring<br \/>\nto the Judaic tradition which favors a married Rabbi or Sanhedrin<br \/>\nmember because as some believe, a married man would be more &quot;merciful&quot;.\n<\/p>\n<p>\nTherefore,<br \/>\ntheir conclusion would be that Paul's wife either left him when he<br \/>\nbecame Christian or that she has passed away, as he had identified<br \/>\nhimself with widows, but also with the unmarried. (1 Corinthians 7:8)\n<\/p>\n<p>\nI<br \/>\nwould not have problem with the speculation of Paul being a Rabbi or a<br \/>\nmember of Sanhedrin, but I would question the historical origin of this<br \/>\ntraditional Jewish belief on who must be married. According to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.thirdmill.org\/answers\/answer.asp\/file\/99800.qna\/category\/nt\/page\/questions\/site\/iiim\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Was Paul Married?\">Third Millenium Website<\/a>, the first recorded account that is still in existence today of such requirement postdates Paul.\n<\/p>\n<p>\nIf Jesus had corrected so many of the Jewish<br \/>\n&quot;evolved&quot; traditions in the first century A.D. despite their ignorance, so that they see the true meaning<br \/>\nof the Mosaic Laws, then it is fair to conclude that aside from the<br \/>\nBible, especially the Mosaic Laws, any &quot;new&quot; Judaic traditions or<br \/>\nrequirements should not be held so reliable to their historical<br \/>\naccuracy and loyalty.\n<\/p>\n<p>\nNow on account of Paul's marital state, it<br \/>\nwould be rather strange that he had not mentioned the existence of his wife if he had at<br \/>\nanytime gotten married, whether that had been be a happy marriage or<br \/>\nnot, but instead, he had emphasized on his celibate life as to<br \/>\nencourage widows and the unmarried, thus indentifying with Jesus'<br \/>\nstatement in Matthew 19:12 &quot;Eunuchs for the Kingdom of Heaven's sake&quot;.\n<\/p>\n<p>\nTherefore,<br \/>\nto say that Paul was married, would require one to trust other sources<br \/>\nsuch as the Judaic traditions or a lot of conviction that one can<br \/>\npresume &quot;A&quot; if the Bible never says &quot;A&quot; is not true.\n<\/p>\n<p>\nI personally believe that Paul was never married, based on 1Corinthians 9:5. &quot;<em>Have we not power to lead about a sister, a wife, as well as other apostles, and as the brethren of the Lord, and Cephas?<\/em><br \/>\n&quot; For this is a good testimony of Paul's particular authority. It might not have been a<br \/>\ngood witness if it leaves room for others to challenge him: &quot;Have you<br \/>\nnot power to do such? Well your wife left you!&quot; or &quot;You stayed single<br \/>\nbecause you miss your wife!&quot;.\n<\/p>\n<p>\nCelibacy is a giving up by<br \/>\ncalling, not by vow or rules of office as the hypocritical Papists<br \/>\nwould like their priests to believe. Biblical Celibacy is not lacking<br \/>\naffection towards or treating the opposite sex as dull or uninteresting<br \/>\ncreation of God, but a matter of priority of God's Kingdom, a special<br \/>\npriority given to not all believers but some to obey. Some have even<br \/>\ngone as far as treating celibacy as similar to the presumed &quot;biological<br \/>\ndefect&quot; of homosexuals, which is ridiculous because if one pretends<br \/>\nhimself long enough to be disgusted by the opposite sex or denying the<br \/>\nbeautiful relationship between husband and wife, he has covered himself<br \/>\nwith a pride that questions against God's perfect creation.\n<\/p>\n<p>\nBottom<br \/>\nline, the real question would be, why would one be so insistent that<br \/>\nPaul was married? If the purpose of such is only to refute the belief that<br \/>\n&quot;Paul was not married&quot;, then it is better for them to say &quot;I am uncertain if Paul was married or not&quot; instead.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Many (especially immigrant or anthropocentric preachers?) presume that Paul was married because they first tried to speculate Paul was a Rabbi or a member of Sanhedrin from certain parts of the Bible and then referring to the Judaic tradition which &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/nycphantom.com\/journal\/?p=1075\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1075","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-theologization"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/nycphantom.com\/journal\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1075","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/nycphantom.com\/journal\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/nycphantom.com\/journal\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/nycphantom.com\/journal\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/nycphantom.com\/journal\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1075"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/nycphantom.com\/journal\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1075\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/nycphantom.com\/journal\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1075"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/nycphantom.com\/journal\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1075"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/nycphantom.com\/journal\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1075"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}