{"id":1508,"date":"2009-11-29T01:31:04","date_gmt":"2009-11-29T01:31:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/nycphantom.com\/journal\/?p=1508"},"modified":"2009-11-29T01:31:04","modified_gmt":"2009-11-29T01:31:04","slug":"black-friday","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/nycphantom.com\/journal\/?p=1508","title":{"rendered":"Black Friday"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\nA couple of days ago, I visited an old friend in West Chester Pennsylvania.\n<\/p>\n<p>\nA worthy trip. Megabus is still the best way to go. Generous seating spaces, smooth ride.\n<\/p>\n<p>\nThings have surely changed for Vincent and PC. I had lived with them for about 1 year prior to my move to New York. It was the most economic living for me, $120+\/month, sharing a &quot;room&quot; with Vincent-in the kitchen. Ah, the good old days.\n<\/p>\n<p>\nArriving Philadelphia, I took a walk around my old apartment on Powelton Ave.\n<\/p>\n<p>\nI brought Maggi &amp; Cintan Mee for Vincent. Apparently, Flushing is the only place we know for getting authentic Malaysian grocery items. Thanks to Megabus and even Boltz, I may even be able to bring more than just Mee. Marmite, Asam Laksa, Kaya, ENO, REBINA, etc.\n<\/p>\n<p>\nWith two kids, things sure have changed. Nonetheless, the atmosphere of familiarity is still thick. Even after almost 10 years of virtually no contact.\n<\/p>\n<p>\nSeeing his cute little daugther did remind me of my baby (more than 10 years ago) cousin. Listening to his struggle as a father and husband tempted me for wanting my own daugther or son.\n<\/p>\n<p>\nI admire the morale I still see in them - It appears to be some rare Malaysian virtue I don't often see, no, not even while I was in Malaysia. A strong &quot;FOR Fellow Malaysians&quot; attitude, which one doesn't often find in other cultures.\n<\/p>\n<p>\nThey had steamboat party the next day, but I had planned to leave on the day I arrived. Trying to make my trip simple, not to mention the Saturday evening Fellowship I had promised my pastor that I would attend (The whole month is up, my job is done, though, somehow I never got the chance to lead as the pastor had intended).\n<\/p>\n<p>\nIn matters of the Gospel, I can only pray for them now. Vincent is Catholic. For a short second, I had this horrible idea that I would rather Vincent stayed Catholic, lest they be affected by the populous pentacostal or evangelical movements. God forgive me.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A couple of days ago, I visited an old friend in West Chester Pennsylvania. A worthy trip. Megabus is still the best way to go. Generous seating spaces, smooth ride. Things have surely changed for Vincent and PC. I had &hellip; <a href=\"http:\/\/nycphantom.com\/journal\/?p=1508\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1508","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/nycphantom.com\/journal\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1508","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/nycphantom.com\/journal\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/nycphantom.com\/journal\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/nycphantom.com\/journal\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/nycphantom.com\/journal\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1508"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/nycphantom.com\/journal\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1508\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/nycphantom.com\/journal\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1508"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/nycphantom.com\/journal\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1508"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/nycphantom.com\/journal\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1508"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}