Kathy’s Word of the Week
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sobriquet
Pronunciation:
soh–bruh-key
Definition:
nickname
As used in a sentence:
Bill is a sobriquet often used in regards to William.
Pronunciation:
soh–bruh-key
Definition:
nickname
As used in a sentence:
Bill is a sobriquet often used in regards to William.
An interesting resource.
September 22, 2021
Filed Under: procrastination, productivity, Wellness

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We can all probably agree that procrastination isn’t wise. Some of us like to believe we work better under pressure. But pressure adds unnecessary stress. While most of us procrastinate from time to time, we often chalk it up to poor planning. When you understand what’s going on in your brain, though, a failure to plan isn’t the root cause.
“Procrastination is an emotion-focused coping strategy,” says Tim Pychyl, associate professor of psychology at Carleton University in Ottawa, and author of Solving the Procrastination Puzzle: a concise guide to strategies for change. “It’s not a time management problem.”
THE BRAIN OF A PROCRASTINATOR
Pychyl says researchers in Germany compared the brains of procrastinators to non-procrastinators using functional MRI. It found that the brains of procrastinators have a larger amygdala, which is part of the limbic system known for fight or flight.
“What’s happening is what we call the ‘amygdala hijack,'” says Pychyl. “The procrastinators are reacting emotionally, and the emotion-focused coping response is to escape. It’s saying, ‘I don’t want these negative emotions I’ll experience during the task,’ and so it avoids the task.”
Another important brain reaction is how it perceives the future. Research done by UCLA social psychologist Hal Hershfield found that the brain views our future self in the same way it views another person.
“[Hershfield] used a functional MRI to look at the brains of people when they were thinking of their present self, their future self, or the other,” says Pychyl. “When we think of future self, the same parts of the brain light up as when we think about the other.”
It’s also human nature to seek pleasure. “We want to feel good now,” says Pychyl. “It’s hedonistic over eudaimonic, which is the happiness we feel when we achieve meaningful goals.”
Putting it all together, when we face a task that presents boredom, frustration, or fear, the limbic system lights up, and the amygdala hijack overrides the prefrontal cortex, which is the home of executive function that includes things like impulse control, planning, and organization.
“All of a sudden, we’ve got all this input from the amygdala and we’re not able to recruit those higher order processes,” says Pychyl. “Even when we do, we think about our future self as a stranger. We’ll mistreat that stranger, and think, ‘I don’t want to do it; that person will.’ All those things come together to drive procrastination.”
Some of us are more prone to procrastination than others. Pychyl says this group often has high traits of neuroticism, such as worry, and depression, and self-consciousness. They have over-active, dominating amygdala.
People who are better at planning use another area of their brain. “You’re really talking about someone who’s high in executive functioning,” says Pychyl. “Instead of so much limbic system activity, they’re getting more prefrontal cortex activity, which reflects with planning and impulse control. Any down regulation of the prefrontal cortex, or executive function, leads to problems with following through on things.”
HOW TO GET CONTROL
If this sounds like you, you may think there’s no hope. Fortunately, there are things you can do. The key to getting control over procrastination is emotion regulation, and one method is practicing mindfulness.
Research out of the University of Pittsburgh found that people can learn to control their emotions through mindfulness. Participants practiced using nonjudgmental awareness over the course of eight weeks. The study found that their amygdala shrunk and the connections to the prefrontal cortex changed.
“When you’re freaking out over a task you need to do, your body and your mind are responding to your physiological arousal,” says Pychyl. “So, first and foremost, you have to stop that pattern of down regulation that it feeds off of.”
Pychyl suggests using breathing and muscle relaxation exercises. Then practice nonjudgmental awareness of the emotion. “Become aware,” he says. “Acknowledge your feelings. For example, you could say, ‘I’m really anxious about this report.’ And then look for the reasons for those emotions. Maybe you don’t want to disappoint. That makes sense. Your emotions are trying to teach you something. But you don’t need to freak out. My favorite saying is, ‘I can have anxiety. I don’t need to be my anxiety.'”
Once you are find a way to get control over your emotions, it’s time to move forward. Procrastination, whether it stems from fear or boredom, is resolved with action. It’s getting yourself to do something you don’t feel like doing. Pychyl suggests propelling yourself forward by breaking down a large goal or task into individual steps.
“What’s the next action you would take if you were going to start?” he asks. “Keep it as small as possible. Then you realize, ‘Well, I could do that action.’ Research has shown us that when you make progress, even a little bit on a goal, it fuels your wellbeing. Even if you just take the tiniest of steps, you’ll help yourself get started and then you’re on your way.”
Mindfulness + action: the one-two punch that can cure procrastination.
For the original article, visit: Fast Company.
I should make a youtube video on this once I understood it. Need to boost my Youtube subscriber number for $. I noticed in Nov/Dec the Sunset time reverses sooner than the Sunrise time. Here's the answer.
Source: Steve Ford: If the Sun were to culminate every day at 12 you would be correct to assume that the times for sunrise and sunset should be symmetrical around noon. However, since the Earth is not moving around the Sun in a perfect circle the angular velocity over the sky as seen from a fixed observer on Earth varies through the year giving rise to what is called Equation of Time, meaning that the sun will not culminate at the same time of day through the year (our clock is based on what is called Mean Solar time which fits the average yearly angular speed of the Sun). During fall and early winter the sun will, due to equation of time, culminate later for each day totaling a difference of around 30 minutes from fall to early winter. In this period, the rate of increase in time for culmination almost cancels the rate of decrease in time for sunset, whereas it almost doubles the rate of increase in time for sunrise.
Source: Filip Larsen: If the Sun were to culminate every day at 12 you would be correct to assume that the times for sunrise and sunset should be symmetrical around noon. However, since the Earth is not moving around the Sun in a perfect circle the angular velocity over the sky as seen from a fixed observer on Earth varies through the year giving rise to what is called Equation of Time, meaning that the sun will not culminate at the same time of day through the year (our clock is based on what is called Mean Solar time which fits the average yearly angular speed of the Sun). During fall and early winter the sun will, due to equation of time, culminate later for each day totaling a difference of around 30 minutes from fall to early winter. In this period, the rate of increase in time for culmination almost cancels the rate of decrease in time for sunset, whereas it almost doubles the rate of increase in time for sunrise.
Why English Bibles say Jesus hung on a tree? Someone at church brought up this question and I looked it up. It has to do with the English word "tree". The Etymology of tree means wood, or wooden structure, in Old/Middle English. The archaic meaning also refers to gallows. And in Greek, the words used for Jesus' hanging tree is ξύλον xulon. The Greek word used for the living tree is δένδρον dendron. ξύλον means wood, the Chinese translation is correct. Modern English confuses people here. Greek word for cross is also different: σταυρός stauros.
I need to look into the validity of some claims. The conservatives maintained only the positive side of the history, that the Indians (Native Americans) and the English pilgrims were friends and Thanksgiving day is to remember that. While the opponents recounted the wars between the two.
Particularly, between the English settlers (King Philip's War) and the Wampanoag people.
On the conservative side, we have authors like Melanie Kirkpatrick. Who has written books about this. On the other side, we have David Silverman, who called all this festive joy a myth.
I'll try to keep an alphabetical order of these, based on phonetics. Some of these terms are well known by either the English speakers or Chinese speakers but new to me.
Abomination of Desolation (那行毁坏可憎的) (it seems that American Christians generally know this phrase): Described in Daniel, mentioned by Jesus in Matthew 24:15-16. Prophesying that the Greek King Antiochus IV Epiphanes in 2 B.C. offered pagan sacrifices in Jewish temple. Also alluded to the destruction of the temple in 70AD by the Romans in Luke 21:20-21, and also referred to Jesus' second coming in Mark 13:14.
I tried to log notes back in the CCCNY Bible study days. But I'll start fresh now. With Grace PCA and Pak Tong's notes.
I came across a very good Chinese summary of Tong's video series. Unfortunately, it only went as far as chapter 5.
Also another transcription of Pak Tong: http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/blog_628b1dcc0102vtfz.html
I must say, I'm almost halfway listening to Tong's John series and I recall Rev. Lin's statement to me once about not wanting to use this series because Tong had criticized too many people. So far, I have heard none of that sort. The only criticisms he made were against the Charismatics mostly, and some testimonies of here and there, but they all were on point, nor were any of them personal despite sharing his personal experience. So I must conclude, Rev. Lin either secretly sympathize with the Charismatics or she is as Tong said in #68: @1:18:20: love to escape from reality.
So far I am pretty satisfied with finding Grace Community Church in Bridgewater. The pastor is young, younger, but thus far, shows more zeal for the community, for the church for any older pastors I've encountered in America. And more important, his zeal for God's word also exceeds the others. We are now vigorously doing Hebrews (Sunday services), did James and now doing Gospel of John (Bible study) and Revelation (morning Sunday School), all by the same pastor. It does make one wonder if he would ever have others teaching along side him, but it really is not a big deal for me. Pak Tong took years before he even considered elders in spite of oppositions from within. So we have a doctrinally reformed church here. The chief lack is the same as any American churches that's of the reformed persuasion: Evangelism. They usually replace that with mission trips or financial support for missionary organizations.
It looks like this will be a good church for both of us. So I am beginning to look into evangelical opportunity. Exploring the area of Bridgewater. There are several campuses but the main one is Rutgers (13 mins drive from the church). The others being: Raritan Valley Community College (9 mins), Pillar College (13 mins), Strayer College (17 mins). Student ministry is a good one to start. Other than that, I am not sure. Area is new to me. This will take time for me to survey first. My ministry will not completely depend on this church of course, in fact it's not really at all. The chief idea is that those who are preached to, can at least have a church that I know is good to go to. I cannot recommend other churches I have not truly known, nor the ones I knew no good. And that you will need a real pastor for things like baptism, etc.
Of all my experience in churches, I hope that I have learned enough to judge rightly. There are churches like CCCNY, which is good for gathering and getting care, but is an obstacle when it comes to TRUE evangelism.
Notes:
One thing about Stephen Tong is that he is able to JUSTLY discern and attack on the answers to his questions. Something many, including his own son, is not capable of.
Now I have to delve into Revelation, James (with Tong's video series), and John's Gospel (with Tong's both Chinese and Indonesian series), and actually Hebrews too. For that's what our church at Grace PCA is doing now. We're done with James, but I'm only at chapter 2 with Tong's series. I need to draw a better picture on Revelation for my own sake. I have enough great resources to do all these. I also really hope for an opportunity to talk to certain church folks, but had not gotten the chance, either that, or I lack courage.
Lots of ecclesiastical events led me to reflect upon the past. Yes, I would still make Chinese churches my priority place of worship. Unless, that these churches have failed miserably in the tenets of the Gospel, which is very much the case in the United States. The chief reason I believe, is they are immigrants and therefore they make America their heaven, their ultimate paradise, which they have achieved. Everything else is superficial: The talk of God's Kingdom, the end times, holiness, righteousness, the Gospel, they are only for the academics or those who want to be "monks"...oops, excuse me, I meant those who want to be preachers. And if someone loves God's word more than others, their solution is - send him to seminary and become pastor. Can a regular Christian not love the Lord and grows in theology without being bothered to go become a pastor? especially when he's not called? 谁说对上帝有追求的一定要上神学?相反的,谁说念神学的一定要去当传道牧师?The foolishness of these really renders me speechless at times. My only conclusion - Materialism. Selfishness. And Christianity (not Jesus) is their mask to cover these.
Thus, my first of such was in Stony Brook, lots of drama, CCF's like childish social club with a religion title, the main pastor did try, but cabut in the end when the trouble hits home (having to lose the house to the Ex).
Then I briefly looked at some charismatic oriented ones: i.e. Flushing's Faith Bible Church. They love to preach the Gospel, I'll give them that, the only condition I allow myself to join any prayer meetings. But with Charismatics and the songs they sing, one easily falls into materialism, no surprise there, but I supposed this is a necessary but negative tool of God which I would be wise to keep a certain distance from.
Then it was CCCNY, seemed reformed, but actually not, because it's not even Gospel centered. When the pastor justified white lies, I had put on my guard. During Stephen Tong's Rally, I've realized that the pastor doesn't really care about the Gospel, but only to show "support" for a famous ministry. When she tried to promote Alex over Michael for Tong, out of knowing Alex longer than Michael, she failed miserably when Alex left the preaching ministry to live in ivory tower and her jealous against Michael grew as he advanced to becoming a preacher. She had to kick him out, probably because she was trying to promote me over Michael in the church or in whatever, among other childish reasons, I told her that the year after my wedding with Nadia at the church, we'll leave this church for good. Instead of asking why or show any care, the word seemed to spread in the church that we left because Nadia didn't understand the language in the church, even though she did attend it for 4 years. For not TRULY loving (the Gospel), making false accusation, justifying white lies, though none of which were done directly against me, would I ever want to pick up the pastor's torch? No, I would spit on it first, then I would clarify and confirm I wasn't even called for this. And even if I was called to such ministry, there is nothing they can do to stop me (much less to promote me), for they would only face the might of God against their feeble attempt.
Then There was the Chinese American Bible church in Monmouth. Charismatic oriented, but I noticed at least one who led the fellowship was really enthusiastic about the Word. Because of the type of prom-night-with-Jesus music and Self-Help topic type of sermons, I put this church as a backup church when we stumbled upon Bridgewater's PCA Grace Community Church.
I did visit Rutger's famous and biggest Chinese church, RCCC. Sermon was not biblical, not impressed. If they have small groups or other leaders who are sola scriptura, I will find them at later times. I'm done looking for now.