I remember a mother asking troubling question but appears to be piously prayerful during a summer retreat on the issue of how God allowed Job's children to be killed like that.
It would appear that this same mother also cares very much for her own son's disciplinary growth, because I observed that she seems to honor and value, overwhelmingly much, the tutor who is mentoring her son in useful subject that's in her son's interest as an encouragement in discipline.