I find it remarkable easy for male Christians, particularly of Asian American to be effeminate when it comes to being nice.
although there is not a hint of homosexualism, it is still not right. A man should behave like a man. If one wishes to learn to be nice, there is such lesson in the Bible. Being a man doesn't mean to be rid of emotions, feelings. Nevertheless, being nice doesn't mean to be easy-going and tolerant by betraying the Truth.
I have no problem welcoming sinners. But I have problem with those who treat sins as nothing especially once they "claimed" they believe in Christ.
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