Edification does not mean we feel better; it means we live better.
by John MacArthur in his book: Worship - The Ultimate Priority, pg. 192
This well suit for John Chen, who does not care for any advices or admonitions that he cannot "feel good" about and therefore deems them "not edifying". The likes of him are many, entering churches of today, worshiping emotions, making friends of people, and not sanctifying disciples of God.