The evangelical Christians focus on families, friends so much that they could not realize that they are not giving glory to God. They think they are, but it just turns out that they merely "understood" they must give glory to God.
The reformed Christians today focus on Soli Deo Gloria so much that they fail to see it has to do with peace and joy in families and friends.
I believe the key in these problem is cowardice. Not willing to face conflicts, escaping from controversial subjects. Because if we do, we might get out of control or if we admit we don't know the answers we feel we have shamed Christianity. And since laziness plays a huge role here as well, we tend to ignore it and use other excuses to run away from our responsibilities.
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