Recent conversation with my mother made me recollect some events in the past.
It is certain that I strongly believe match making is a sin, on most aspects, since those who committed it are unsure of the consequences as if a gambler who either thinks he/she is incredible when winning or leaves irresponsibly after losses.
I have seen the match makers around me. Some put no effort, as if playing lottery, and see if the church will grow this way, some however, do put in some effort.
It is regarding the latter one, that I am putting this entry now.
They indeed showed some level of care and enthusiasm. Inviting me and the other party for a nice dinner, introducing parents, relatives, with much effort, somewhat.
However, one terrible fault was made. Now I've always made myself and my stand clear before anyone could blame their errors on oblivion. But whether they have their own belief as to where I should go or they were simply overflowed with enthusiasm, that does not give them the right to suppress true motive with a general motive.
So in return, I did make some friends and a free delicious juicy dinner. I have, no doubt, felt sorry whether I had been too harsh upon such "usage of blessing" upon a human being, and have prayed long and hard upon such issue. But in the end, I am certain, always tell the truth, true motive must be shown in both verbal communication and action, so that there may be no regret nor embarrassment. They could consider what regret and losses they have suffered as payment for such lesson.
My God is the God of TRUTH.